Some kids have blankies. Others have binkies. Yet others have their thumbs. And still others have a favorite stuffed animal. A lovey. A snugglie. My daughter has Purple Jacket. Not "a" purple jacket. Not "the" purple jacket. She has "Purple Jacket." The amazing thing about Purple Jacket is that he so so much more than a jacket. Oh yes. He. Purple Jacket is a "he." Purple Jacket is my daughter's friend, snugglie, partner in crime, and primary source of comfort...absolutely necessary for bedtime for close to two years now and also for anytime that we are just hanging out. We used let my daughter wear Purple Jacket other places, but now he stays at home because if he were to be lost.... Life. As. We Know. It. Would. Be. Over. Despite having to stay at home, Purple Jacket apparently leads quite an active life. A typical morning conversation with my daughter... ME: How's Purple Jacket this morning? ESME ...
Our profiles are posted again on the adoption agency's websites. When our profiles originally went live , I remember a sense of anticipation, of imminent success, and the excitement that came with taking such a big step. Today, seeing them posted again makes me feel tired and worn out. It feels like we're back to Square One. When we first decided to adopt, we spent lots of time answering questions, explaining the process to friends and family. Now, we're explaining what happened and where we go from here. Returning from the gym this morning, I was standing outside and our neighbor across the street stepped outside and called over, "Hi Chris! You guys must be getting so excited!" I expect that this will continue to happen as we see friends and colleagues over the coming weeks who might not have heard the news. They ask because they care and they're excited for us and I have to answer them because they're grieving a bit for us now, too. We are part o...
OK, I admit it...I've really poo- poo'd "The Biggest Loser" for a long time. But, then again, I generally poo-poo reality TV... I'm generally not a fan of reality TV because I find so many of the shows to be down right mean-spirited (with one or two notable exceptions..."Project Runway" & "What Not to Wear") and I usually avoid them, but tonight I'm flipping through the channels and I land on TBL . I'm not quite sure what makes me stay, but I get sucked in. All of the contestants in tonight's episode have been sent home from "The Ranch" for a week to give them an opportunity to spend time with the families that they've been missing for two months. And also - of course- to see how they'll do back in Reality Land. Will their old bad eating/self-destructive behaviors rear their ugly heads? During their "vacations" the contestants are all expected to eat well and to exercise. The TBL produ...
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