In the Present Moment: The 4th of July

As we're sitting at the parade today - in our usual spot across the street from the television viewing stand - Chris turns to me and says, "We won't be able to sit here next year."

 I raise a questioning eyebrow.

 "Too much sun for the baby."

 Hmmm.

 Something to think about.

 Later at the cookout on our deck my mother-in-law asks cheerfully, "Isn't it amazing to think that next year at July 4th you guys will have your baby?

 Isn't it?

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